What submissive type are you?

There is a wide array of terminology and types of those who are submissive. Submitting to a Mistress is not a one size fits all endeavor. Deciding where you fall may seem daunting, but really you can be more than one type. There are everything from brats, to slaves, to pain sluts. So, what submissive are you? Let’s discuss some of the key roles that most subs fall under.

Firstly, there’s bottoms, which can be a term for pretty much all submissives. Not to be confused with the bottom in the gay community, but in a sub/domme dynamic, a bottom is the one who receives the punishment. In a power exchange relationship, bottoms are the ones submitting to a Mistress, get dominated, spanked, and disciplined. Next up, we have those who want to be a slave for Mistress. a slave goes far beyond just being one to bow down to your Mister/Mistress. A slave relinquishes all control to his/her Mistress. Everything from what to wear, to doing household chores. While a slave is also disciplined, this relationship goes far deeper than that of a normal submissive and oftentimes requires a contractual agreement.

Well Miranda what’s your favorite?

The third and fourth submissive I’d like to discuss today is being a pain and/ or humiliation slut! A pain slut can be a humiliation slut and vice versa, and these are my ABSOLUTE favorite types of submissives! For strictly a pain slut, you are one who has a high tolerance for pain. In fact, craves it and is one way to help you get off and serve appropriately. A humiliation slut, thrives on humiliation (self explanatory huh)? For this sub, humilation is the key to bringing them down to size and manipulate them into behaving. Be it small penis humiliation, being forced into cucking or sucking a cock. They thrive of being laughed at and called out.

That’s not to say you have to be this type of slut for me to play with you! This is just where I have the most experience. I can see myself learning and enjoying every type of sub style. As much as you can learn from me, I still have room to learn and grow as a Mistress. There is no shame if you aren’t sure if you fit into any of these categories, we all learn our roles in due time. The ticket here is to be open minded and willing to experiment with new ideas and allow yourself to be completely free from inhibitions.

What Makes a Perfect Submissive?

A perfect submissive is one that knows his or her role. Again, this isn’t a one size fits all, as each individual Mistress is going to have a preference on what they want from a slave or sub. We Mistresses also all have a particular breed of men we love. There is nothing better than bringing you to your knees using different methods. As said above, some prefer a pain slut or humiliation slut, that doesn’t mean that other subs are unable to compete for my attention. Plus, there are Mistresses out there who prefer more of a slave or the blanket stated “bottom”.

In the end all subs can be “perfect” by obeying the commands of their Domme, and setting up boundaries from the initial first meeting or call. This allows both parties to understand limits, and to determine where the line is drawn. Then determine whether or not it can be skewed. Let’s be honest, some buttons are fun to push! If you give your loyalty to a Mistress and are willing to play the role she expects of you, there’s certainly nothing I can think of that cannot be achieved or worked out. So, here’s to a kinky good time and the opportunity to learn a little bit more about yourself as a sub!

Stay filthy, heathens-

Miranda Your Teasing Tales Mistress

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